How Do You Know If Someone Wants To Kiss You?
Sometimes you might like a person and they like you, but you just aren't sure if they want to kiss you or not.
No-one wants to make a fool of themselves, so how do you tell if they like you "in that way" or just as friends?
Fortunately our body's speak for themselves and so It's rather simple to find out, as there are certain behaviors that separate friends only relations to romantic relations.
If you're the guy
If you're not sure whether a girl wants to kiss you, there's a few things you can do.
The trick that works very well is when you're with the girl you like, slowly escalate touching. Say you're at movies or walking down the sidewalk, try taking her hand first and see how she reacts.
If she reacts positively and doesn't seem to be weirded out by that, you can slowly escalate your non-intrusive touching. You can put your arm around her shoulders.
Then, when you're either sitting or standing up, after you got comfortable with initial touching (this is to test waters if she's interested in your in a romantic way), you start looking deep into her eyes as you softly stroke her hair or brush it off her face.
If she reacts positively to that, she most likely wouldn't mind you kissing her.
However, to be even more sure, brush her cheek (just barely touching) with the back of your fingers, while looking into her eyes. If she reacts positively to that, while looking at you, she almost definitely wants to be kissed.
Now move in closer and see if she withdraws. If she doesn't, pull her closer to you and go for the kiss.
If you're the girl
It is generally accepted that the male is the one who should initiate the kiss.
Whether or not this is correct is almost irrelevant...it's life.
If a guy wants to kiss, he will usually either say so or he will try to escalate touching somehow.
Most guys feel very nervous about kissing for the first time, so you might have to make him feel comfortable by being close to him and inviting his touch and maybe even doing some touching
yourself, such as holding his hand or putting palms of your hands on his chest while being close to him. This really makes him feel confident about himself.
Usually a guy will stare at you or he might kiss you unexpectedly while two of you together. The signs to look for are if he's acting goofy around you, or teasing you playfully or compliments you, smiles at you and tries to talk to you.
All these things indicate that he might want to kiss you if you don't make him uncomfortable about his intentions. Meaning if you withdraw when he tries to escalate touching or if you act like you're uncomfortable, it will bring his confidence levels down and he might think you don't like him.
Often times it takes time to tell if someone wants to kiss you or not by how they are behaving towards you. The more general, yet possible indicators that someone might want to kiss you are:
- Smiling at your when they see you
- Having "bedroom eyes" (those deep relaxed eyes that are affectionate)
- Touching you at every opportunity
- Touching your face or your hair with care
- Playfully teasing you and tickling you
- Hugging you affectionately
- Wanting to be closer to you than other people in your group
- Generally wanting to be close to you and not withdraw when you touch them
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